Probably bi but REALLY scared

Hi there. My name’s Adrianne (not really), and I have a really strong faith in God and His Holy Church. I am Catholic and I have always been.

The problem is, I think I’m bisexual.

I started to have a crush on a girl friend some years ago and I was scared, but then I stopped liking her, so I thought it’d just been a phase. Three years ago, though, I truly fell in love with a straight girl. I was scared then too. However, I never really stopped to wonder what my sexuality was. I did start to question it some months ago.

I am not scared that God might not love me anymore because He loves every single human being with His whole Heart; and I’m not scared of what people or my family might say, because they’ll always support me (thank God!). But I REALLY am scared of going to hell. I do not want to go there. I spend almost the whole day thinking about that, and it terrifies me. I just don’t know what to do. Could somebody help me?

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One Response to Probably bi but REALLY scared

  1. Alejandro says:

    Do not be scared, trust me every person who comes to God will pass through this fear. God knows your heart and knows that in it you want to be with him. If you are only tempted you are not sinning. Pray to God that he gives you strength to overcome this fear, since this exact fear has been the bane of many. Remember psalm 23:4 “Yea, though i walk through the valley of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me:thy rod and thy staff they comoft me.” As long as you do not explecitly go out and “be” with the same gender or have voluntarily lustful thoughts about them, (And I mean full-fledged voluntary with no REGRET afterward*emphasis on REGRET AFTERWARDS*) that’s when things get ugly. But God sees your struggle and will not let you go at it alone. Pray to the Virgin Mary for her intercession so that christ helps you along every step of the way. May God Bless You.

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